when making the fabric softener try using hot water and mixing it with the baking soda (it fizzes a little) I heat the water up to boiling then mix the baking soda to try to dissolve as much as possible. I add the vinegar, and mix, let it cool a little before you put it in a bottle.
Doing this will keep it from fizzing as much when you shake it before use
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